As a female reader I'll second Liaden (Lee & Miller) and Vorkosigan (Bujold) as less tech and more story and character space operas. Campell's Lost Fleet might be a bit a bit too ship and war focused.
I've heard that Sheri. S. Tepper is considered feminist SciFi so there is another sub-genre not yet mentioned. The book that got me started on her is
Grass. I also vote for
Raising the Stones or
Fresco. For a giggle at turning the gender tables there is
Six Moon Dance which is set on a world where the men wear face veils lest women get lured into lust looking at beards.
Edit:
Oh! We forgot Anne McCaffery. There is another I'd consider 'light' SciFi. Too many books to mention by name
.