One's own ego probably makes an important swing in here. Often you might find it easier to just write what you want to write and then seek the appropriate readers
I know if I was an author I'd probably cry a lot when the beta-readers gave me anything but praise. I prefer to let the market decide (which isn't always the best... and probably why I'm not an author - but rather a slave to one
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