Originally Posted by kindlekitten
in a relationship
that I have been trying to get out of for fifteen years
and now he has cancer
and I feel REALLY stuck
Ouch! It doesn't get much worse than that! Damned if you do and damned if you don't! Now the only 'fix' isn't one we ever talk about hoping for... Sorry you have such a dilemma. The most we can do is send along some positive energy to help you cope with the uncopeable. Remember... we are always here for you to talk to. Venting doesn't solve problems but it does make them easier to handle. Use us often.