Originally Posted by frostschutz
So I'll just assume he knew and didn't tell you. So he's been deceiving you, lying to you the entire time. Wow. And now he's got you wondering whether you're a complete bitch or not? What an asshole.
That seems a little harsh. Not telling somebody something is not "lying". If all this happened 5 years before he met the OP, perhaps he just wanted to put that part of his life behind him and make a fresh start. Let's not be so quick to assign malicious motives when we know nothing about it.